During a wedding day, besides the imminent guests, friends, and family, the bride and the groom are exposed to a wider audience. Some of those regular and unnecessary people who have access to the weddings and make things less bearable for the stressful but important they for the soon-to-be-newlywed. Those are the wedding planners, the photographers, musicians and so on. These people have so much experience and it seems like they have seen it all when it comes to weddings.
It seems like some of them know the bride and the groom pretty well and ahead of the big day. The photographers, for instance, have one of the biggest responsibilities when it comes to weddings.
They have to make sure that everything is flawless and lovely before so they can capture the perfect images during the big day.
So, we could say that they get to observe a little behind the scenes and during the preparations. As mentioned before, their years of experience got them to sharpen their sense of how truly the soon-to-be-married couple is going to fare after the glamour of their wedding day is over.
Scroll down for some of those moments that these photographers and Reddit users knew that the marriage was pretty doomed, courtesy of VT.
1. When there’s no connection
“We are looking specifically for moments of contact, of intimacy, of emotional connection. It pretty quickly becomes evident when those things are there, and when they are not.” shares Reddit user SuccessiveApprox.
2. The groom’s confession
“I went to the bathroom at one [wedding] and the husband was washing his hands next to me and I made some compliment about how things had come together and joked that it must be a good sign for the future. said a Reddit user.”He, in a very very apathetic tone said, ’Well, we’ll see how we do’ and walked out.”
3. You may now kiss the groom, or not
“So he poses a kissing shot of the couple, and when he asks them to kiss the bride goes ’oh, no, no thank you’ in this weird little mousey voice.” says Reddit user CoLmes.
4. When the bride is unhappy, and the groom well, is not.
“One couple worried me, because the bride was a tense wreck during the whole ceremony and reception to the point that I didn’t get many useable pictures of her because she looked so stressed out and unhappy,” one Reddit user shares. “Meanwhile the groom was with his friends having a great time, but not helping her with anything or responding at all to her panic.”
5. There’s a difference between a wedding and a marriage
“Many couples, particularly young couples, pretty clearly have in mind a wedding but have put little thought and planning into a marriage.” says Reddit user SuccessiveApprox.
6. The bride who hit on the photographer
“During the reception the bride told him they were going to have an open marriage and basically offered herself up to him, which he politely declined.” disclosed the Reddit user Deweysizemore.
7. If the speeches are underwhelming
“I’ve heard some truly heartfelt, touching words shared during toasts … and have heard others that were seriously underwhelming. If it isn’t easy for you to think of why this person is a good match for your friend, that’s a bad sign.” said Reddit user 2Dprinter.
8. The non-stop arguing couple
“If I only know you for eight hours, but I know you’re upset your new spouse didn’t let you plan any of the wedding, then I’m not sure you have your priorities straight.” says Reddit user Eatcheeseordie.
9. The groom and best man had some things to work out
The Reddit user SuccessiveApprox says: “Like once when there was more sexual tension between the groom and the best man than between the groom and the bride.”
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